Cottage Series Part 2: The Hunt

Now that summer seems to be within reach, that means that cottage season is nearly upon us!  I suppose this means I should pick up our cottage quest where we last left off…

In June 2016, the hunt truly began, although we had had several near-ownership attempts before that (three in about 4 years, to be exact…two of which we had put in conditional offers on various locations where we were actually considering building our own place from scratch.  Building something from scratch is a life-long dream of Christian’s that I’m certain will one day be fulfilled…more on that another time).

We took a day off work and set out on a “day date”.  Our first stop was a fractional ownership option called Inaski Shores in the Kawartha Lakes region.  If you haven’t heard of fractional ownership, it’s partial cottage ownership without any fuss.  You “buy” 5 weeks (typically), with one fixed summer week and 4 other weeks that float throughout the year.  You have shared access to a private portion of the lake, shared amenities such as a pool, dock, firepit, games room, etc and there is shared community space with other fractional owners.  Cleaners come in every week when you are done and it really is a turn-key option for those who don’t want full ownership and OK with letting go of some privacy and autonomy.  Prices range from about $45K to $150K depending on where you are and what amenities are available.  It was a good place for us to start.  We chatted with other owners, had a picnic by the lake, and toured two of the units.  It was a lovely day and everything seemed pretty….ideal.

Off home we went.  More discussions, more searching, much deliberation.  After almost pulling the trigger on fractional ownership, we ultimately said “no”.  Yes, cottage ownership is more work and stress, yes it’s a huge financial obligation (many might say it is the most irresponsible financial decision one could make), but it was what we had always talked about.  No more half measures.  If we’re doing this, we’re DOING THIS.

Back to the drawing board.  Enter = Moore Lake.

On paper, it was perfect.  Christian being the designer-type that he is, has a dream of building a home for us one day, somewhere.  He came across a listing for a large piece of vacant land in a small quiet bay off of beautiful Moore Lake.  There was enough land to potentially sever and sell off the secondary building lot of land to another future cottager, which makes a heck of a lot of sense financially.  In August, our friends got hitched at Balsam Lake, just 30 minutes south of the property.  Opportunity was knocking and we took it!  Off we went, squirmy toddler in tow, to check out this too-good-to-be-true site.  Christian was giddy with anticipation.  After years of combing the northern real estate market, he knew this lot checked a lot of our boxes (and trust me, we had a lot of boxes).  There was one big unknown: what was the lake like?  We knew Moore lake was beautiful, but this bay left some question marks.  We drove up the winding road, parked, and set off down the overgrown trail to the waters edge.  It was beautiful: quiet, serene, tonnes of wildlife, and virtually untouched.  The only problem? Weeds.  A heck of a lot of weeds.

But oh man, bless my persistent, unshakeable husband.  He wasn’t ready to say no yet.

Before I knew it, he had striped down to his swim shorts and was heading into the lake. As he pushed off from the swamp-like shoreline into the murky waters, he shouts back to me: “It feels like zombies are attacking me!!” (pretty sure we had been well into the Walking Dead at that point).  He tried to swim, and it was no use.  There were just too many weeds.   Defeated, he trudged back to land.  We sat quietly on the dock for several minutes looking out over the water, willing ourselves to find a way to make it work.

A kind neighbour loaned us their canoe so we could paddle out and check the rest of the bay.  Maybe we could clear out the water entry near the dock and the rest of the bay would be OK?  No such luck.  It was pure weeds.  It was no site to build our dream cottage upon.  Defeated, we had to move on.

Christian was, in a word, heart-broken.

To help lift our spirits a bit, we stopped in at the Riverside Inn & Pub, a little place in Norland off of Hwy 35 that had come highly recommended from several locals and cottagers.  We ate outside on the patio, lamented about the events of the day, enjoyed some wine (which became a summer favourite since then: Errazuriz Estate Series Sauvignon Blanc – add it to your shopping list.  For less than $15/ bottle, you won’t regret it), and tried to figure out what to do next.

We sort of gave up for a while after that.  I remember specifically saying to Christian: “I don’t think we’re going to be able to check off all our must-haves….maybe we’re asking too much?”.  But again, my husband wasn’t ready to give up.

The fall approached, and the cottage-buying window was shrinking.  Not great news when you are on a mission like we were, but as the days grow shorter and the weather grows colder, it can be a bit of a buyers advantage!  You either sell your place before the snow hits, or sit on it for another 6 months until the cottage market heats up again.

In early October, there was a small spike in listings — the final push to sell before the long winter set in. Supply had increased, and a few new gems came online.  One that caught our eye was on a small lake called Clear Lake, interestingly just a short drive away from where our 2016 hunt first began at Insaki Shores.   We jumped on the opportunity to check it out and left our little guy with “Nana & Papa” in Orillia.  At that same time, another tiny place came up for sale on beautiful Catchacoma Lake (yeah, you say it like it is spelled) — conveniently where some wonderful friends of ours cottage every summer!

Having a toddler-free day to ourselves, driving several hours between properties on the same day made a lot of sense.  We teed up two showings: the first stop at Clear Lake, and the second on Catchacoma.

I should point out here that right away this was a build vs. buy decision for us.  The place on Clear Lake was a good size, multiple bedrooms, fully functioning and fairly move-in ready.  Over on Catchacoma, it was a full-on development process: building plans, demolition, construction, road allowances, the whole bit.

Clear Lake was just as the name would suggest: Clear.  It was calm, quiet, quaint, clean and very relaxing.  The only hitch?  The realtor before us hadn’t put the key back in the lock box.  Yes, after hours of driving and coordinating, we couldn’t get into the darned place.  We peered through windows to get an idea of the cottage as best we could, walked the property, spent time on the dock and checked out the neighbours…but we never actually went inside.

Yes, that would be Christian and our Realtor trying to see about….err….an alternate entry.

What we loved about the Clear Lake property was that it could be updated fairly easily, AND it was on a double lot.  Being city folk with a 20-foot wide lot, the prospect of all that SPACE up north was a big selling feature.  The property felt very private and was surrounded by trees…a welcome change from the tightly-packed city of Toronto.

Off we went, 1 hour away, to check out the tiny run-down place on Catchacoma.

What is magic about this lake is that it’s part of a 7-lake chain system and the lakes are absolutely beautiful. Boating for miles, wide expanses of water, amazing sunsets…and as previously mentioned, friends just around the corner!

Being the ocean-loving gal that I am, I was pretty sold on Catchacoma from the start.  I loved the idea of being on a large lake.  The biggest deterrent was that, as expected, the existing cottage would be a tear down.  There would be piles of approvals and hoops to jump through in order to build a new place, not to mention a road allowance situation to deal with.  But we were still hopeful.  Could this be a 2-for-1 dream machine?  The dream of cottage ownership AND the dream to build from scratch?

I remember looking out over the water and almost feeling as if I was back out on the West Coast.  The feeling gave me goosebumps.

On our way back to nana’s to pick up Harrison, we debated back and forth.  Do we put in an offer on Clear Lake?  Or Catchacoma?  Or neither?

Key lesson learned in the cottage hunt: it is NOTHING like buying property in the city.   In Toronto, you can look at a house and then go find a dozen comparables that are the exact same lot size, same neighborhood, similar type of house, similar finish and get a very good sense of value.

Up north it is seriously the wild west.

Is is southern exposure?  What’s the frontage?  What’s the lake quality?  3-season road or municipal?  Good fishing?  What amenities are nearby?  How big is your lake?  Is it boatable?  Does it have boat motor-size restrictions?  How far is it from Toronto?  Does it have a well?  Septic?  Outhouse?  What are the zoning restrictions?  Is it water access only?  Is it winterized?

and on. and on. and on.

There are no comparables, there are no apples to apples. It’s apples to papayas. Or more like apples to…..tacos.  Mmmmmm tacos…..

So what’s a cottage-loving couple to do?  Put in some offers, that’s what!   We threw caution to the wind and went for it.  (OK, we didn’t throw caution to the wind.  There was hours of conversations, a tonne of research and some very extensive spreadsheets….have you met my husband?).

We went for Clear Lake.  We low-balled an offer and waited.   The owner came back with a counter-offer knocking just a few thousand dollars of the price.  Point taken.  I mean, it had only been listed for a week or so.  We came back again by upping our bid and that offer was turned down.  That deal was dead.  Back to the drawing board.

Onto option B: Catchacoma.  In went our bid, we held our breath and waiting to hear back.  We received a call the next day from our agent sharing with us that our offer had been conditionally accepted!!  I remember standing in the middle of the Porter Airlines lounge when I got the call = we were going to be cottage….builders.

I boarded my flight to head off to a work conference while Christian went to work crunching the numbers.  Before our 2 week due diligence timeline lapsed, we knew what we had to do.  The numbers didn’t lie: we had to let the beautiful property on Cathchacoma go.  Our dream to build would still be realized one day, but this day wasn’t it.

November was quickly approaching, the cottage buying season was drawing to a close, and we were right back to our starting point.

And then…our agent called.  The what-we-though-was-going-to-be-final deal on the place on Clear Lake had fallen through.  We offered again, and this time, we knew we had the upper hand.  The season was basically over and we were able to secure a long term close date to save of unecessary expenses over the winter!  The deal went firm in early November and in 5 looooooooong months, we would finally get the keys.

On March 31st, we again took the day off for a “day date”.  We drove to Lindsay, met the lawyers, signed the papers and got the keys.  We were officially cottage owners!  Check that one off of the bucket list.

As we gear up for another much-anticipated second summer at the lake, it’s amazing to look back and reflect at the journey we took to bring our family to Clear Lake in the first place.

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Now you are three.

It’s hard to believe how fast this past year with you flew by.  It seems like only yesterday we were blowing out the candles on your cake together as we geared up for your very first visit to the cottage.

So many firsts.  So many blurred memories.  So much learned.

Our first family all-inclusive beach vacation.  You LOVED playing in the ocean waves and chasing your dear friend Quincy around everywhere.

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Your first monster jam truck rally.  It was a life altering experience for you, and all you wanted to do was re-create the event again and again on the living room floor every night.

Your first full sentences.  The first time you made me REALLY laugh because you “told a joke” (even though you didn’t necessary realize it was a joke); the first time you paid me a compliment (“mom, I really like your earrings today”), the first time you offered me some criticism (“mom, your hair looks like butter; I don’t like the strings”)

The first time you peed all by yourself, after a solid week of me doubting myself about this whole potty-training thing: had we pushed you to potty train too soon? Will I seriously have to give you stickers every single time you make a bowel movement until I send you off to college?

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Your first day of preschool.  You didn’t shed a tear or miss a beat and you were SO excited for your routine, new friends, new TOYS.  I was so proud of you.

Your first cousin.

Our first totally public, totally confined epic toddler melt down (inside an airplane, for approximately 20 minutes).

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The longest time you and I have been apart in 3 years, and the longest distance by thousands of miles.  That was a long 9 days away from you and Dubai is a very very far ways away.

Your first time requesting a specific song to be played (Footloose.  It’s always Footloose)

The first time you sang…..like REALLY SANG…a full song in its entirety!  You started with ABC and as we moved through your second year, row row row your boat, the Robo Car Poli theme song (thanks, Netflix), and Twinkle Twinkle, have all been added to your rotation.

Your first time truly saying good-bye, to our amazing nanny, Amber.

The first time you saw that I was crying, and recognized and understood that I was upset, when a dear friends’ daughter left this world way too soon.  I struggled to find a simple way of explaining the tragedy to you.

Your first time sleeping in a “big boy bed”.

Your first time taking off your shoes, socks, hat, and coat…all by yourself.

Your first time becoming our in-home barista, mastering the art of the Nespresso Coffee.

Your first organized sport, playing soccer with Little kickers.

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Your first sleepover, which involved actually sleeping in the SAME ROOM as another toddler!  Winning!

The first time you demanded independence.

The first time you refused to hold my hand.

The first time you negotiated with us.

The first time you tried to articulate your feelings with words.

The first time you “read” (memorized) a book.  First favorite = The Giving Tree

The first time you swam in Clear Lake.

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Your first ice cream, scooter ride, balance bike-ride, ride in an excavator and flight outside of North America.

And yet, within a flurry of firsts, there were also so many last times….these I find so hard to pinpoint.  When was the last time I picked you up without worrying about my back?  When did you stop calling me ‘mama’ and instead start calling me “mum”?   When did I stop singing the “good morning” song to you each day?  The past year is starting to melt together with the year prior.  Those small, precious memories are already slipping into the back of my memory bank — this is the most difficult part about accepting that you are now another year older.

But, do you want to know something?  It keeps getting better.  That first year with you….boy…..I wasn’t so sure.

I wasn’t sure it was ever going to get better.  There were some tough days, weeks and months.

But, now you are 3.

I love the boy that you are becoming.  I love to laugh with you, play with you and sing with you.  I love to watch your curious mind working at 5,000 miles an hour.  I love to sneak in and tuck you in and give you a kiss good-night before resting my head on the pillow after a long day.  I love reading to you…your attention span is unbelievable.

I love to watch you grow.

I love you more today than yesterday.  But not as much as tomorrow.

Happy Birthday, my love.

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Cottage Series Part 1: Taking the plunge.

It’s hard to believe that summer is half over.

Summer in Ontario is about so many things: soaking up as much of the dearly-missed sunshine as possible, endless trips to farmers markets, hitting every patio in sight, racing home to hit the road and drive up north to the lake….the lake.  Yes, the lake calls us.  It had been calling Christian and I for the better part of a decade.  And we are so excited to say that summer 2017 is our first year as cottage owners!  The most exciting part about that statement?  Knowing that we have countless summers of cottage memory-making ahead of us.

But, before we plunge into the future, allow me to share our winding journey of how we got here in the first place.

We didn’t just wake up one morning and decide “today is the day!” (have you met my husband?  He’s a very planned and calculated guy — these kinds of decisions don’t just “happen”!).

No, there were a lot of pieces and experiences over a number of years that came together in order to turn this dream into a reality.

It begins on near opposite sides of the country: me, a west-coast gal raised about as close to the ocean as you can get in beautiful British Columbia.  I grew up in a small coastal town called Tsawwassen (literally meaning “facing the ocean”) and the ocean was always there.  I was fortunate to have friends with homes on or near the beach from when I was in elementary school all the way into my teens.  My best friend, Leah, has a family cabin right on the beach and I spent many summer weeks there: playing football on the sandbar, falling asleep to the sound of the waves lapping up against the rocks, the salty air in my hair and on my face; it is to this day one of my favourite places on earth.

Meanwhile, Christian is growing up with his own version of life-on-water.  With his grandparents owning a family cottage near Minden, Ontario, he spent most summers at the lake with his brothers: swinging on the rope swing, diving into the water, pulling the darned pump in and out of the lake to help get things running right, starring up at the stars in the night sky and just being a BOY.  To this day, some of Christian’s most treasured family memories occurred at the Huggett family cottage.

We both had some magic moments, independently, by water: mine on the ocean, and Christian’s by the lake.  We both decided from a young age that we wanted that association with water, in some way, to be in our lives.

What is it about being by a body of water?  The smell.  The sound.  The way your shoulders instantly sink away from your ears and relax.  The way it simply allows you to sit and enjoy. There is nothing like it.

10 years ago, the ocean-born gal meets the lake-bound boy.  Our first date in Toronto took us to Ashbridge’s Bay beach where we starred out at the massive lake and shared our first kiss.  I had the chance to visit Christian’s grandparents cottage that fall (fortunately, as it was sold just a few years later…this photo is the last one we ever took up there):

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Christian came to BC with me the following summer and we took a trip to Tofino together. I’ll never forget his reaction when he jumped into the Pacific.  He was collecting sand dollars and starfish like a wild man.  He’d never seen a kelp doll before; he was mesmerized by all the sea critters we would come across.  I realized how much I had taken these gifts for granted.  How spoiled I was to have grown up by the sea!

In our early years of marriage, while we juggled never-ending home renovations, tried to balance our bills, all while growing our careers and figuring out life as husband and wife, we would often go for walks.  On our walks, we would always talk about our future: our hopes, our dreams and our plans together.  Always, the topic of a family cottage came up.

At first, I was against it.  In those early years, I still felt torn calling Toronto home. Although we had put down roots and bought a home together, purchasing a cottage property in Ontario just felt so….FINAL.  One house you can sell, but two properties?  How will I ever return out west when we have two properties tying us down?

But on went the years, and our lives.  And slowing but surely, Ontario became my home.

We would go on beach vacations, a trip to the south of France, a journey around the Greek islands, a road trip from Santa Monica to Santa Barbara…and always the topic would arise: how can we find our own slice of the beautiful waters’ edge?

The truth is, we didn’t necessarily know when it would happen.  But what we did know, is that we had talked abut it enough to know that when it was right, it would just feel right, and we would know.

Last year, after the sale of our first home (which had since evolved into a rental property), and after spending a glorious week at our friends’ cottage on the Lake of Bays, we looked at each other and said: we either take this opportunity and re-invest in another rental property, or we take the plunge — and dive into cottage life.  You can tell which option we chose by now…

Stay tuned for “the hunt” post coming soon to a blog near you!  The story continues…